Ask about your gay friend's life too! Try for free. I have a family member who is gay. Rugby union. I was wrong. I could get laid without fear of catching that big, scary, incurable STI:
I worried my guy would be grossed out or otherwise turned off by my blood, my pain — hell, my body.
One of the things that you get there is incredible playing with pronouns. His piece made me laugh, but it also made me sad. Having an effiminate voice usually prevents me from having to come out to every single person I meet, which gets annoying.