You have to take initiative! Suck it. So start some small talk and give her some hints and some things to think about. What you're trying to do is determine if she's bigoted or has a negative feeling about gays in general, or if she seems to be okay with everything. Also, please stop trying to do the math on this, seriously. Step 2: I have yet to master it.
Spiced with Tegan and Sara references and salted with L Word references, this is a fantastically written article because it is so obviously for us, by one of us!!! Same with bisexuals. But look at that: Most professionals agree that sexual orientation is far too complicated to be changed.
What can I do?