I came out fairly recently and I'm feeling optimistic about my love life. Being sexually adventurous often leads to surprising eroticism. I'm worried that if I do meet somebody I like, this will be a deal-breaker. It is very common for gay men to be decisive after a "first bad experience". There is also the comparison with straight couples: Paco It is easy, both topping and bottoming. And so much so that people think you have to be into anal to be a gay or bi man just as they think you have to be a gay or bi man to be into anal.
No one is born full comprehending the intricacies of being penetrated.
I almost never think men are attractive. Was this article penned by some twenty-something who just got their Ph. Five years later, he had a blood test that revealed him to be, in fact, negative.
I enjoy oral sex and intimacy, but I realise that this isn't enough for most potential partners.