And the attention paid to the reasons we often want a shared language to keep our desires away from a police state. Sign In Don't have an account? But also, pee on a stranger. Since the s, the hanky code has been picked up from folks all over the gender spectrum. You already have undercuts and now harnesses; let me keep this.
The handkerchief codealso known as the hanky codebandana codeor flaggingis a way of indicating, usually among gay male casual sex seekers or BDSM practitioners in the leather subculture in the United StatesCanada and Europe, whether they are a top or bottomand what kind of sex they are seeking, by wearing cotton color-coded handkerchiefs bandanasusually in the back pocket. Views Read Edit View history. Modernismo Publications. Read on to learn how, what, when and why it all started, and what our reporter got up to when he tried it for himself….
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