Want to add to the discussion? The age difference doesn't really matter later on life I believe but when you're in your 20s it kind of matters at least to me it did so I think after all the pain of the separation settles you'll be better off. Hold hands, put your arm around his waist, some butt pats, neck rubs, a hug when he gets home from work. It's to the point that I'm considering searching for some sort of intimacy outside of our relationship, or just breaking up all together. Hey there - thanks for your thoughtful response.
I was the party boy and he was the one at home worrying, and he made the right decision for himself to end it.
Sexless Gay Relationships
I have been in the same kind of relationship for over a year now but the difference iswe have never had sex to begin with. If your post fits one of our weekly threads, you may be prompted to post in that stickied weekly thread instead. We had been dating for less than three months. Think of your relationship as a system in which the two of you are contributing equally to this homeostasis. RedEmma has useful advice about some of the ways that can be done. Rekindling sexual desire is not really a snap, but it certainly is doable if you address it directly. March 28, at 2:
Get some good non-sexual physical love in there. Consider it hidden, along with all the kisses you never gave. If you have an older Salon account, please enter your username and password below: Communication is the lifeblood of a relationship, and when you stop talking, you starve it. As has been expressed in at least one other comment I think the main concern is your partner's unwillingness to talk about what's going on - along with the fact you said he's not just not having sex but not intimate in other ways as well. I think you already know that answer. With every new search, I became more and more discouraged: